Thank you for this! My point was more that it was Nicki just sort of enjoying herself, which I really like and which seemed to me to be way different from the other obviously problematic things, and not “Nicki is clearly inattentive in bed!”
lol okay so that’s what i THOUGHT you meant at first and then i overthought it and was like “what if he thinks that nicki is degrading the dude with whose cock she is so carelessly toying???? and then he thinks that i am okay with testicular pain so long as a woman is performing her own sexuality???????” which, can we, all of us here gathered on this here internet, take a moment and laugh about patriarchy, that i legit was basically like WHAT IF I HURT ANDY HUTCHINS’ BONER’S FEELINGS, I BETTER TALK FOR A REALLY LONG TIME ABOUT NICKI MINAJ NOT-DANGEROUSLY CARESSING HER DUDE’S BALLSACK.
….uh. thank YOU also, your message made me laugh out loud!