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Jan 23

TRIGGER WARNING: Child rape

so-treu:

quixotess:

milkeemountainmama:

anoldladyonfire:

Please do not click “More” if you do not want to see Hugo Schwyzer’s reaction to Joe Paterno’s death.

And … you don’t. Not really.

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i mean—i wonder if there’s “shades of gray” on how much he loved those kids that he never protected?

why can we always find “shades of gray” when it comes to those in power? but the rest of us are just sad children who complicated an otherwise brilliant man’s career?

[Further And Really Serious Trigger Warning (for child rape, pedophilia & associated apologism)]

I just saw that in November he wrote an article for the Good Men Project headlined “To prevent future Penn States, we need to celebrate the good in male sexuality,” in which almost every single line is vile. I swear I keep thinking it can’t get any worse and it just does.

But we also need to remember that while pedophilia and related disorders are genuine mental illnesses, they are aided and abetted by sexual shame. In a world where the hefty majority of rapists and abusers are men, that means that helping men–all men–overcome that shame is a critical part of the “solution.”

(It’s my understanding that just the opposite is true, and that if you give a pedophile a forum in which to talk with other pedophiles, they will help each other rationalize increasingly overt and harmful abuses against children. Rapists of all types are pretty famous for egging each other on, right?)

That’s his solution, though? That’s where he wants to create lasting change so that no one ever covers up the rape of a child again, so that not one single child is ever sexually abused again? Focusing on the positive aspects of adult male sexuality? What about the shame that Sandusky’s victims felt? What about the shame his victim felt when Joe Paterno saw a rape happening and did nothing? How can freeing the Sanduskys of the world from shame end rape? How can anyone read this and nod along?

I swear I am thinking of the access Hugo has had and still has to young people and I am just sort of seriously freaking out.

hugo schwyzer is rapist coddling scum

i keep saying this but this is making me so fucking sick, jesus christ.


  1. lewesde reblogged this from fucknohugoschwyzer
  2. telegantmess reblogged this from sexartandpolitics and added:
    I think this is one of the biggest “missing the point” issues I see around. Its most problematic coming from those...
  3. gleeksfalllikedominoes reblogged this from isabelthespy and added:
    I had to explain this to my younger brother, who didn’t really think Joe Paterno did anything wrong: What if YOU were...
  4. madgastronomer answered: He certainly has no place in MY movement. But I’ve been there for a while now.
  5. isabelthespy reblogged this from so-treu and added:
    i keep saying this but this is making me so fucking sick, jesus christ.
  6. twilight-perfection reblogged this from subtletysmyweakness and added:
    seriously?)… I don’t understand the big hubble about...tweet. He’s right that Joe Paterno...
  7. subtletysmyweakness reblogged this from sexartandpolitics and added:
    Just fuck you Hugo schwyzer. He has no place…talking about things. Like, any of them. Ever again.
  8. forgottenisforgiven answered: Joe paterno was a sick piece of shit and that disgusting fuck didn’t die soon enough. he deserves to rot and be forgotten.
  9. muckrakingiswomenswork answered: mr is always pushing the not-so-subtle threats…validate and service white male desire or it’s ON
  10. ablogwithoutpants reblogged this from marshmallowmegamama and added:
    i don’t like cannot even shades of gray????????????? remember both????????? oh my god why do you TALK
  11. needalifesaver answered: Eyew ew ew! UGH!
  12. ikintoo answered: Honestly, this whole Penn State atrocity is getting more disgusting by the minute…
  13. rgr-pop reblogged this from fucknohugoschwyzer and added:
    Getting sexually assaulted as a minor is totally conducive to developing positive adult male sexuality. And telling...
  14. gaywitchforabortion answered: he is actually the worst person. THE worst one of all of them.
  15. thisisyouroriginality reblogged this from fucknohugoschwyzer
  16. allosaurusmeat reblogged this from sexartandpolitics and added:
    A tweet in which Hugo Schwyzer says that we should all still love Joe Paterno as a coach because he died. Why would you...
  17. nessfraserloves reblogged this from fucknohugoschwyzer and added:
    FUCK YOU, Schwyzer. So FOOTBALL outweighs the damage done by covering up and failing to report child rape? FOOTBALL? No....
  18. rubyvroom reblogged this from so-treu
  19. onceuponanotsolongago reblogged this from marshmallowmegamama
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  21. bubbybobble answered: SO MUCH MOTHERFUCKING HATE. :I Just when I think he couldn’t possibly screw up any worse, he surprises me with this little turd
  22. oma-schmidt reblogged this from fucknohugoschwyzer and added:
    he… He’s terrifying. ._.
  23. enjoli answered: that’s not a thing. -dudebros
  24. leonineantiheroine answered: I am so sick of these fucking PRICKS!!!!!!!
  25. iamthecrime said: UGH
  26. ourcatastrophe answered: D:
  27. wildunicornherd answered: *screams* WHY DID I CLICK
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